Wednesday, March 09, 2011

headwind- me laa...

hangin dibuatnya..

Mak dengan ayah is going to KK this friday morning for my cousin wedding. Jadi anak2 sedara aku yang bertiga ni yang mak jaga since mak ayah dia kat hospital. My brother still admitted lagi di PPUM but dia dah ok dah hopefully 15th March scan is the finaled one lah lepas tu InsyaALLAH dah boleh keluar.. Sementara mak kat sabah Jumaat sampai Ahad I suggested my SIL lepak at my house taking care of the kids. Tak sampai Jumaat lagi dia dah risau sgt nak tinggalkan my brother sendirian kat hospital.

She asked me to drop her and the kids yang 3 orang so hyper tu kat hospital this Friday morning masa aku gi kerja and fetch masa petang nak balik. I can do that but tak kan lah nak berkampung dengan anak-anak kecik dari pagi sampai petang kat hospital tu confirm doctor tak bg kan lagi tahu budak2 tu manalah boleh duduk diam. Bukannya selesa pun lagi cam anak2 kitalah kalau dengan mak bapak sendiri mula lah perangai masing-masing menjadi-jadi so you can expect that. Can you manage that. My brother, he would understand your situation ok...he is ok dah sekarang kan dah boleh jalan can take care of himself dah boleh makan yang nak risau tak tentu pasal tu kenapa....lagi pun tinggalkan dia sehari aje kat hospital dia bukan bed ridden ke apa...lagipun all this while dah dua bulan lebih pun bersama dia siang malam kat hospital he would definitely understand....petang khamis mak ngan ayah dah dtg melawat..pastu you can visit him on saturday and sunday, kereta ayah kan ada. Kalau susah2 sgt nak tinggal I'll give the direction to PPUM so you can drive and bring the kids together and visit him on Friday.

I'm so mean but I want her to learn. I did reply her sms asking how she wants to manage the kids from morning till afternoon at the hospital surrounded with sicks people...they definitely cannot stay in the room for too long sebab now my brother dah duduk bilik berdua..sebelum ni oklah duduk bilik sorang.

dalam apa jua perkara jangan ikut kata hati...think wisely

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